Planning your Special Love Date
Going on a love date can be overwhelming at times.With deciding where to eat what to do and how much money to spend. Let us help you make it a time that you and the love of your life will cherish.
Moving to a new city can be a little unsettling. Maybe you have to find a new job place to live and make new friends. We hope here at Upstate Romance we can help you in all of these areas. We understand how it is being new to a City.
When someone has a good person, they need to appreciate them and not get lazy. People need to think about "we" instead of "me". Everyone should wake up thinking "what can I do to make him/her happy today?" instead of thinking about only themselves.
~M
Tips For Couples
1.Open communication. If both partners aren't able to convey their wants/needs, it can only lead to hurt feelings and resentment.
2. Hard work. It seems like many people look to the fairy-tale as a guide to what a relationship should ideally look like. The fact of the matter is, relationships are work. If a couple (BOTH partners) aren't fully devoted to working hard to make the relationship last, it simply won't work.
3. Trust.
4. Mutual respect. Although this could look different in different couples, mutual respect for each individual's role in the relationship is an absolute must.
That is, of course, just a few thoughts. I'm sure the list could actually be made much longer.
~SkyddsDrake
"For too many women, anything a guy says, wants, or needs is controlling. Those are not going to be happily married women" Dr. Laura Woman Power
Men are hurt that their wives:
Don't seem to have much regard for their feelings and needs
Constantly criticize and dismiss them
Don't want to go out of their way to please them
Nag, demand, and complain - and behave as if entitled to do so
Don't make them feel truly needed as MEN
Don't make a priority out of making the home homey
Don't treat them with respect
Men want their wives to:
Need them
Admire them
Desire them
Respect the fact that to feel like a MAN he needs to provide for and protect his family
Show approval, appreciation, and affection
not make them feel like being masculine is tantamount to being deformed
Respond to physical contact and affection for feeling of connectedness and love.
Dr. Laura - Woman Power
